TRUDDIE'S DIMENSION

  They say female friendships are one of the strongest bonds that can last through time and the troubles of life. And it is true. I’ve seen such bonds that have lasted from high-school, campus and some even from primary school. I have seen these ladies stick together, grow and uplift each other emotionally, financially and socially. They are there for each other’s birthdays, weddings, and career achievements.  

When someone tells you 'I love you,, it is usually a moment of relief because you have been feeling the same way too. You can finally let go of the breath you have been holding for so long and the heart stops beating erratically. The other thing that can happen after those words have been said is the realization that you actually don't feel the same way. It is then upon you to either say the truth and hurt the other person or tell a lie and compromise your happiness.

  It only makes sense that I write about this guy whom I will call North first. It comes easy because I have known North for practically 19 years. The irony is however, our birthdays are literally three weeks apart and this guy hardly remembers mine. This guy remembers we loved pineapples when we were kids, something I don't even recall yet my birth date has always escaped him. Anyway, I have never held it against him. North, if you will ever read this,( which I doubt you will) I have forgiven you for 70×7 birthdays to come so there is no need for more apologies.